25 December 2013

Is CDRF listening? Maybe, just maybe, they are.

SCI won't be cured by hyped up language but by science and the active involvement of those living with the horrors of paralysis and their supporters.

In November, I wrote an email to Mr. Peter Wilderotter the CEO of the Christopher and Dana Reeve Foundation (CDRF) in regards to a hyped up fundraising email which claimed that CDRF was, “Successfully getting people out of wheelchairs right now. Today, it really is a reality.

Now, I don’t know about you, but when I hear statements like this it sounds like people are getting out of wheelchairs for good. A look through the research and what I find is that while it is helping people improve balance and even some ambulation; these same people are still using wheelchairs. Unless you try to be literal about it, this is not, “getting people out of wheelchairs,” in the way that most regular people would understand it.

I don’t like claims like this because they spread false hope especially amongst the newly injured and I told this to Mr. Wilderotter. I asked for an apology, but I think I got something much better. Looking at their next fundraising email, there was a fundamental difference in tone.

I’m heartened by the fact that maybe foundations do listen a little (after three years of campaigns aimed against this kind of behaviour).

This time, instead of making such broad sweeping statements that have no educational value whatsoever, Mr. Wilderotter listed three things that CDRF is working on which he thinks is important to both care and the future of cure. I would have liked some links in the email so people can see exactly what he’s talking about, but it’s a lot better than saying, “getting people out of wheelchairs right now,” without explaining the whole story.

To tell you the truth, I actually disagree with the importance of some of the three things Mr. Wilderotter raised, but guess what, I don’t mind disagreement. They don’t have to agree with me and I don’t have to agree with them. What I wrote to Mr. Wilderotter about was not disagreement over the statement, “Successfully getting people out of wheelchairs,” but that this statement is misleading, spreads false hope and miseducation, and makes people think that cure is much closer than it actually is. In the end, their message said, don’t worry about getting involved in cure, send us money and we’ll deal with it as we’re already getting people out of their chairs.

This is the wrong message. I hope CDRF does more in the future to involve those of us in chairs because I think it will help us all get closer to cure, but in the meantime, I’m happy that we MAY have sent CDRF a strong statement against wild comments that do nothing to bring us closer to cure.


Thank you Mr. Wilderotter (and I really do mean this).

PS. I spent some time this morning removing Bob's accusatory comments and the responses that others have made because they are pissed off with Bob's unending off topic comments about Dr. Wise Young.
From now on, false and/or off topic comments won't be allowed and this will stop the mean comments against Bob and his son (who doesn't have anything to do with this).

I understand that this is an emotional topic, but it gives no one, not even Bob, the right to make statements that they cannot back up.

29 November 2013

Ho! Ho! Ho! And a Merry SCI

Ho! Ho! Ho! And a Merry SCI

Well my friends, I want to let you know that paralysis has not failed me this year either.

I'm back in the hospital with a new gift from spinal cord injury, an infected pressure sore. Never though I'd get such a bad pressure sore as I try to take care of such things, but I guess spinal cord injury wanted to make sure that I tasted as many secondary issues as possible.

There are some, who after a disability injury or illness, talk about how it has made them a better person. Well, there's nothing I can do except believe what they have to say and keep waiting for it to make me a better person, too.

While I'm waiting for that better person to explode from my loins, I'd like to list up what SCI has brought me for Christmas.

Christmas 2009: at the rehab hospital after I was left crippled from a bleed in my spinal cord.

Christmas 2010: luckily I made it out before Christmas that year even though I had a second operation for an arachnoid cyst.

Christmas 2011: at the rehab hospital after an operation for syringomyelia.

Christmas 2012: my kids got to enjoy having their father around for the second Christmas since paralysis.

Christmas 2013: the kids thought I'd definitely be home for the holidays, but unlucky us. My new infected pressure sore will keep in the hospital over the holidays.

I know that there are those who've had it worse, but the point is to make sure this horror doesn't happen to others, and not compete about who's had it worse. It's a terrible thing regardless of how you slice or dice it.

So, let's stop talking about how SCI can make us better. Let's make others understand how SCI robs not only our lives but the lives of those around us. Let's hope for future Christmases without paralysis.

Dennis Tesolat
www.StemCellsandAtomBombs.org
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28 November 2013

The $5 "Cure Videos" Challenge

Many of you know the group Unite2FightParalysis (www.U2FP.org) and the wonderful yearly conference they put on called Working2Walk (www.W2W.org).

There are many like myself who would love to attend and hear the exciting presentations made by scientists and activists in the fight to cure paralysis. Well, flying from Japan, booking a hotel, and all the costs associated with out country, or even out of city travel, doesn't fit into my budget.

But does U2FP leave me or you out just because we can't afford the time or money? No, they make sure that the presentation are available to ALL of us for free on the internet.

Click here to watch the videos. You'll be asked to log into your account and you'll get a password for the videos. If you don't have an account, you can log in through your facebook or twitter account, or create a new login. Whichever way you do it, you'll get a password which you can use. 

 Although they make it free to watch, it's not free for U2FP. I have learned that making the videos available to us for free costs them about $5000 for the videographer and then many many hours in volunteer time to get them ready for the final upload and editing. So I'd like to make all the video presentation viewers out there a simple, cheap challenge. From now on, every time I watch a 2013 video (the first time) I'm going to donate five bucks, and I want you to do the same. There is a donate link on all the videos which you can access after registering to view (registering doesn't oblige you to donate). You can support U2FP and their work to find a cure for spinal cord injury for as little as $5, and supporting cure is a lot better than any of the other things you can buy for a fiver. Of course, if you think that $5 at a time is a pain, please feel free just to make a larger, one off donation. 

Hope you take the challenge!

18 November 2013

Part II: The International Association for the Advancement of Creative Maladjustment"

This is the second posting of this below post and it's one of my favourites.
It came back to me tonight after I discovered a second high fever in as many months. This is just after having to be in bed three weeks due to a pressure sore. I have no cold symptoms so I know that it's an infection in my paralysed body.
Don't ever let anyonr tell you that we can adjust ourselves to paralysis. It's a lie. Regardless how much we try, paralysis was never meant to be adjusted to by the human body.
Enjoy the repost and I hope you'll join me!
As a trade unionist and socialist these words by Martin Luther King always rang true to me.
"I never intend to adjust myself to segregation and discrimination. I never intend to become adjusted to religious bigotry. I never intend to adjust myself to economic conditions that will take necessities from the many to give luxuries to the few. I never intend to adjust myself to the madness of militarism and the self defeating effects of physical violence."

And I guess now that I am a new paraplegic these words ring even truer.
After listening to this after a long time, two recent blog posts came to mind.
One was an imaginary conversation I had at my 'Spinal-Cord-Injury-group-therapy' with my counselor.
Counselor: "If you don't accept your lot in life, you will never adjust."
Dennis: "I'm not really interested in adjusting to this life. I'd rather fight for the cure. Not just because I want one, but because it's possible."
Counselor: "Then you my friend are maladjusted and you get an F in group."

And the other was a blog post written by a friend and how he was labeled as: "An example of a person who has not reintegrated into society after a spinal cord injury." Basically he was called a maladjusted, too.
In the year 2011 is it right that we are still trying to adjust ourselves to paralysis when we have excellent results in animal studies and clinical trials in progress to cure paralysis? Actually, the thinking that we should adjust is what is stopping the cure.
I appreciate all the work done by those before us, who have struggled for better accessibility, chances at employment, etc, but as long as we continue to think in 2011 that paralysis is something that you adjust yourself to, the further we will be away from a cure.
The image of the 'happy roller' rolling through a successful life in the chair, is a myth.
For every successful businessman or career woman in a chair, there are countless more unemployed. According to a 2002 study, the unemployment rate in America for those with spinal cord injury was 63%. And to this I never intend to adjust myself.
For every happy person living a carefree life in the chair, there are countless suicides. The rate of suicide in the spinal cord injured community has been evaluated as high as five times greater than those without disability. And this I never intend to adjust myself to.
For every person living a long life in the chair, there are thousands who die prematurely due to complications stemming from their spinal cord injury. A 2009 study stated that life expectancies, "are still somewhat below life expectancies for those with no spinal cord injury." I never intend to adjust myself to a lower life expectancy than others.
For every person in a wheelchair enjoying greater accessibility in our communities, there are countless numbers of others who are confined to their homes due to poverty, pain, or vent dependence to whom ramps are meaningless. And to this too, I never intend to adjust myself.
If refusing to give up hope for a cure, when evidence supports it, is to be labeled maladjusted, then I too am a maladjusted and I'll throw my hat into the ring of "The International Association for the Advancement of Creative Maladjustment".
Dennis Tesolat
www.StemCellsandAtomBombs.org
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